I am myself an only child, my friends are trying their best but I really cant be bothered to reply as they just dont understand. The only thing that helps is being on this forum and reading others stories to realise that you are not on your own. Its HORENDOUS and it is not getting easier I am afraid to say. īless you Adam I really hope they have got your Dads pain under control.
Oh I remember like it was yesterday the worst pain and heartache I have ever felt! Eventually they put her on the syring driver and her pain eased and she became more settled.and 40 minutes later she opened her eyes wide they were like glass, looking around for me( I was layed behind her kissing her head) and as soon as she saw I was there took her last breath and passed. Her organs were packing in and her breathing was horrific, she was 66 yrs old but looked 100 yrs old, her eyes were in the back of her head. I rememer the day well mum was screaming out in pain,the pallitive nurse was there pumping her with morphine but nothing was working. I feel for you big time as I was in the EXACT same situation 2weeks 5 days ago with my mum(my hero & my life).
I don't think anybody should have to experience this pain (and I'm aware that many others do). I have to say that at times like this I rather hate life. I've been by his side all day, and will continue to be later today. How do I manage this?īy the time anybody replies he could of course have gone. losing the love of their lives in such a way) might have something to say. So I thought I'd post this in the hope that other people who have experienced or are experiencing something similar (i.e. I'm aware you could say I've invested too much in one person - put all my eggs in one basket, as it were, but I can't change that right now. The most important thing for me to say is that he is the love of my life - my soulmate, my best friend, my mentor, my sunshine, my world. Mentally he's been largely gone (but not entirely) since April - when they found all the brain lesions. I had hoped he might pass away peacefully but instead my mother and I (I'm an only child) have to see and hear him wailing and wailing and wailing. He's screaming out in pain and no amount of morphine appears to help. My dad is apparently going to die within a few days (maybe tonight) from cancer that spread massively to the brain.
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